Exactly. The book for caregivers I'm starting to work on is tentatively called "The Family Caregiving System: Sharing the Care of a Loved One". Hopefully it will be of value.
I really like the “only me, could share, could simplify” framework, Paul. One layer I’d add is that something being technically shareable does not always make it workable to hand off. The person receiving care may not be comfortable with someone else stepping in, cognitive changes can make a new person or routine harder, and some responsibilities require training or so much coordination that the handoff creates work of its own. Sometimes the most useful question is not only “What can I delegate?” but “What kind of help would actually reduce the load in this particular care situation?”
I used to get a much needed break when the Hospice nurse came to spend a few hours with my uncle.
There is nothing more difficult than looking after an elderly loved one. If you are lucky enough to have siblings try and set up a schedule.
Exactly. The book for caregivers I'm starting to work on is tentatively called "The Family Caregiving System: Sharing the Care of a Loved One". Hopefully it will be of value.
I really like the “only me, could share, could simplify” framework, Paul. One layer I’d add is that something being technically shareable does not always make it workable to hand off. The person receiving care may not be comfortable with someone else stepping in, cognitive changes can make a new person or routine harder, and some responsibilities require training or so much coordination that the handoff creates work of its own. Sometimes the most useful question is not only “What can I delegate?” but “What kind of help would actually reduce the load in this particular care situation?”
thank you.
on any given day sometimes it seems like the work never ends. your brain constantly think: "okay, what's next..."
You're very welcome. The more I research and investigate, the more I see what an overwhelming issue family caregivers is.
Many of us know from first-hand experience. Getting a real break os often rare.
Has this author ever met a mother?
I understand your point.