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Retirement For Newbies's avatar

We’re currently trying to persuade my mother to have one of the alert systems for if she has a fall. So far no success. I’ll show her your article.

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TheSeniorTechie's avatar

Hope it works! Being 77, I can understand why someone might not jump at the chance to get one - one might feel that it shows weakness. The way the request is phrased can make a big difference.

Frame the conversation around maintaining her independence rather than limiting it. Emphasize that the device lets her continue doing what she loves while giving everyone peace of mind if help is needed. Start with empathy by acknowledging her feelings and involving her in choosing the device, which shows you respect her opinion and aren’t talking down to her.

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Retirement For Newbies's avatar

That’s really good advice. Thank you.

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